Respect, Discipline and Honesty

OK, this has nothing to do with food. As a father, the moments when I am most proud of my two sons are usually private. The first time my son beat me outright in Chess (I always play full speed). When my son bring home a 100% on a test for a subject he’s been struggling with. Watching my older son’s amazing 7th Grade Concert. But last night was one of the rare nights when my private pride spilled over into public accolades, as my youngest son Nico stood before 500 fellow students and parents to receive a trophy that measured half his height.

Nico holding his Spirit Award trophy.


Nico can not do the most push-up nor is he the fastest runner. But the Spirit award was given not for outright achievement, but for intestinal fortitude and the strongest heart. The award reflected that Nico never gave up mentally, even when his muscles were not strong enough to give more. He learned everything he could. He gave 100% of his effort everyday. Knowing my son; this is his highest praise, a reflection of his success with the thing he has most struggle with. There are no words to describe my intense pride as I watch Nico stand up in front of so many people to receive this particular award, and at this particular, tumultuous time. There are no words.

I am lucky to live in a town when the Police Department runs a 2-week summer camp for kids going into 6th grade. Essentially it’s a mini boot camp, where they show the kids: CSI, high-speed driving, K9, helicopters, etc. More importantly, the camp instills responsibility in a way that is difficult for a loving father to emulate. They put into action the three most important words: Respect, Discipline and Honesty. My only “job” was to make sure he has clean clothes, and to get him there on-time. Nico had to make and pack his lunch, pack his own supplies, and make sure he wore the right color shirt. One day Nico accidentally wore his dirty, white shirt, instead of his clean blue one. Excuses were not important. My heart melted when he apologized because he made me late for work, having to go home and get his blue shirt. He took responsibility for his mistake and did his push-ups without complaint.

10 Responses to Respect, Discipline and Honesty

  1. lorri says:

    What a fantastic program! Sounds to me like he will remember his experience for a lifetime ~ Congratulations for earning the title!

  2. Ricardo says:

    Grande Nico!!!

  3. Lorraine says:

    Well done young man, stand proud Nico and I can see u get your values from ur dad. What a great program for the police to do with the kids, should have something like that here in the UK

    • It’s not everywhere over here. I just happen to get lucky where I live. I didn’t realize you were from UK. Are you going to any Olympic events? I would love to see tennis!

      • Lorraine says:

        No Olympics for us too expensive, just going to watch on TV but living in the North West (Liverpool + Everton fc and OK the Manchester ones too hmm) where more for football although when the footy seasons over there’s usually only Wimbledon to look forward too. Glad we had the Euro’s this year : )

  4. Jean says:

    Congratulations to your son…and give yourself a pat on the back…his character didn’t happen accidentally!! That picture is worth a thousand words.

  5. nilu says:

    Congrats to Nico!! The picture with him holding his trophy is priceless..sounds like a great program.

  6. Fran says:

    Congratulations Nico! Love the photo of you ready to go to junior police academy. I check the blog for the latest food creation and got a great surprise of you and your trophy.

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